If you’re a single adult, or one whose relationship is listed as “It’s Complicated” on Facebook, or even one who is dating but isn’t serious enough with anyone to consider the holiday gift-exchange worthy, you likely roll your eyes at that first red box of chocolates to hit the shelf at your local drug store the day after Christmas and with good reason.

For those without a Valentine (and even for many of those with one), February 14th is a drag, and not because they feel badly about being alone – most single people do NOT regret being single – but largely because, well, let’s face it: it’s tough to get a spot at your favorite restaurant on Valentine’s Day and that’s a total downer by anyone’s standards.

But fear not, oh Valentine-less Human! There are up sides being single on Valentine’s Day, namely that all the money you might spend on flowers that will likely arrive wilted, imported Belgian chocolates, and a bottle of perfume no human being should ever wear can now be spent on YOU. And trust me when I say: you’re worth it.

So, what do you gift the one person in your life who has rarely let you down (I say “rarely” because of that incident involving spray paint and your biology teacher’s new Cadillac in the tenth grade but let’s not go down that path)? You give jewelry, of course! And do you know why? Because jewelry doesn’t ask you to stop singing out of tune. It doesn’t complain when you leave the toilet seat up. And it doesn’t ghost you in the morning without so much as saying it’ll call you. It’s the perfect partnership, and the two of you deserve one another.

The kind of jewelry you’ll want to have this Valentine’s Day should feel fun to purchase, so I’ve laid out a few suggestions for you below so that you’ll see what I mean.

The Watch You’ve Always Wanted
Look… You’re a professional. You’ve spent years attending higher education classes. You have no kids, limited bills, and don’t even own a car because you live in “the city,” so what fun thing are you doing with all that money you’re making? Okay fine, you went to South America last year, and that was an awesome experience, but are you carrying around a box a sand from Ipanema Beach everywhere you go? NO. And do you know why? Because it’s not practical. Practical is something you’ll use. Practical is something you’ll look at every day with a sigh of sheer adoration. Practical, is a Swiss Made watch.

This Eight Day Royal Navy Silver watch by Arnold & Son is the ideal “sigh-inducing” timepiece for your wrist. With its mechanical hand-wound movement and eight-day power reserve, it’ll be a watch worth investing in as you start your journey of investing more time on yourself (see what I did there?).

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Arm Candy Without the Calories
One of the great things about a bracelet is that not only do people notice when you’re wearing one, but you also notice, too. Your hands are constantly used in social environments, so a little bit of bling will grab the attention of an onlooker, and, if what you’re wearing is interesting, it’s a perfect way to get a conversation started.

For those with a penchant for the written world, this signature pencil bracelet by The Expression is more than just a beautiful piece of jewelry. Inspired by the adage, “The pen is mightier than the sword,” the brand designed the pencil motif in a variety of ways jewelry styles, making it an important part of their collection.

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Put a Ring (and a Bow) On It
Despite what your last boyfriend said as you kicked him out of the house, you are a gift. You’re a gift to your friends, to your family, and to your co-workers, but most importantly, you are a gift to you. With that in mind, you should treat yourself to a piece of jewelry that makes you feel like the gift you are.

The Bow Ring by talented jewelry artisan Mimi So will have you wrapped up and ready to go in a feminine but empowering way. The ring is available in a variety of metals and with various gemstones, but you should opt for diamonds, because let’s face it, you deserve the best this Valentine’s Day.

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What it Means to be “All Ears”
Gurl, it’s time to bag those studs (I’m talking about earrings here…) and grab yourself a pair of power earrings. Maybe something shiny, dangly, and flirty. Something that says, “I like my coffee the way I like my men: strong, a little sweet, and plentiful.” Something that will make you feel like a better you when you wear them– which you should, and often.

I suggest these Dancing in the Rain 18K gold dangle earrings by Italian jewelry house, Nanis. They’re affordable, versatile, and would look great with your new “I hate Valentine’s Day” haircut. And you’ll love how light they feel when you put them on.

Now, what are you waiting for? Get shopping! Don’t you dare keep you waiting.